I wear disposable diapers in public and around friends and nobody has noticed them.
Even when a toddler is wearing diapers under their blue jeans you cannot easily detect them unless they are really full and sagging.
For example here's a picture of a toddler boy wearing diapers and you can see the diaper sticking above his pants when his shirt rides up.
But when his shirt is down the diaper is not noticeable.
Also for the second and third picture the older kid who is about 10 or 12 years old is wearing a diaper under his pants and you can see it in the first picture but not in the second picture.


