Hi 30QuoVadis, if it's a current thing of bedwetting then put a diaper on them BUT during the day, it could be a pee-load of choices. Linda had idea about taking the 7 yr old to his doctor wearing diapers he and you don't get embarrassed, usually that will help.
Now if you 7 yr old is doing this on purpose this is what you can do. Make a game out of, give him a choice underwear or diapers, if he chooses diapers then when you take him to school explain to the nurse he's having accidents at home, please change him when he needs it. He may want to be a baby, especially if you have a new baby in the house. If that's the case, treat him like you would if he's a new born. As silly as a must, it's probably what he wants cause he misses his babyhood. Email me to see if that's want he wants!!
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