Finding the right person for you will take time. This is not something that happens overnight: Just because you decided to commit, doesn't mean your prince or princess charming will jump out of nowhere and sweep you off your feet. It takes work and time.
The most important thing to realize is that even when you find "The one", a healthy relationship is still something you will need to work on every day. Due to the instantaneous nature of the internet, sometimes we expect love will happen quickly when we date online. After all, we have thousands of services at our fingertips, right?
Prepare ourselves for the ups and downs of online dating. While positive thinking is important, you must be realistic about the situation. If you believe you are going to find our "great love" right away and don't, it can lead to disappointment and frustration.
Unrealistic expectations are the main source of unhappiness in dating and in life. So try to dial down your expectations and just enjoy getting to know interesting people, the rest will fall into place.