Most cases of bowel incontinence can be corrected and cured with either treatment, medicines, exercises and even surgery.
If you want to completely stop and cure the bowel incontinence then having surgery would be the better option.
If you're dealing with bowel incontinence then it would be a good idea to wear absorbent pads or adult diapers to help contain the feces when you have bowel incontinence.
Diapers are not that bad to wear and I wore them for temporary incontinence after having my babies.
The diapers were much better for my urinary incontinence instead of dealing with wet pants.
If my babies can wear diapers when they have too then so can I and you and anyone else as an adult, teen or kid and if you need to wear diapers either for bowel incontinence or urinary incontinence then you should.
Diapers are not really that easily detectable under clothing and body really pays any attention to what you're wearing under your clothes.
But if you do have bowel incontinence you should also see your doctor but I recommend using adult diapers to contain the poop.