Yes I hate when someone uses the saying and says to someone that's gods plan and he needed another angle.
That is exactly what turned me off of Jesus, God and Religion and now I no longer believe in god and would not worship him even if I seen him in person and he was real.
If God or Jesus plans to take your child or someone you love especially at an early age such as a young kid or teen through some disease or other tragedy or natural disaster then that is a really terrible plan.
God is terrible as well as Jesus.
I've had people tell me that my loved ones have went to be with the lord because the lord wanted him and it was that persons time.
Well yeah those people were old and died of old age which is natural and expected but they didn't go be with the lord because the lord does not exist.