Am I a bad person because I don't spend time with my family?

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asked Nov 9, 2019 in Family by Kssjk (390 points)
Am I a bad person because I don't spend time with my family?

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answered Nov 9, 2019 by LindaHartzell (26,630 points)
You can choose who you want to spend time with and if some of your family is not enjoyable to be around then you do not have to spend time with those people.

I have some family members such as cousins and aunts and uncles who I prefer to stay away from because I cannot stand them.

I even refuse to let them around my kids because they are awful people.

Now if they were better people then I would let my kids spend time with them and I would spend time with them.

Our time is short here on earth so we should only spend time with family that we actually love and care about and just because they are your family it doesn't mean you have to love them or spend time with them.

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