After you do a hot oil treatment by heating the Coconut Oil up and applying it to your hair and then massaging the coconut oil into your hair and make sure your hair is wet before adding the hot oil to your hair.
Then massage the coconut oil into your hair and let it sit for awhile and you can dip your fingertips into the warm coconut oil and massage it into your hair that way.
Then you really should put on a shower cap and leave the warm coconut oil in your hair overnight and then in the morning use your regular shampoo and then wash the coconut oil out of your hair.
You might have to wash your hair a few times with the shampoo to get all the coconut oil out if needed.