Is ignoring someone a toxic trait?

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Is ignoring someone a toxic trait?

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answered Aug 13 by Munigma (5,160 points)
Ignoring someone is a toxic trait when it comes from certain people although sometimes people ignore text because they are tired of texting or don't want to speak to you again or they are just too busy.

To not get annoyed when someone doesn't reply to you try to remember that the person not replying to you may just need time to respond to you or they just need a break from responding or need some space.

One of the most common reasons someone may ignore you is because they need space.

The person ignoring you could be going through a tough time or need time to themselves.

So respecting their boundaries and giving them the space they need is essential.

People may ignore your messages because they are either too busy or they could be cutting you off or not really your friends.

Some people just get so tired of responding to messages and so they don't reply and then reply later when they think of something to respond of.

It is considered disrespectful to not reply to a text although you're never required to text back when you don't want to and not everyone can text back right away which is okay.

Ignoring a text is considered disrespectful and is rude and can be interpreted as disdain for the person who is expecting a text back.

However sometimes people need to realize that someone does not always want to respond or are required to respond back all the time.

A person who never responds is called an unresponsive person.

Someone ignoring you or your messages is also ghosting you.

To deal with someone not responding start by giving the person time so they can process your text or messages and allow them to respond on their own.

It could be that the person not responding to you is simply just tired of responding and taking time for themselves to do other things or they are processing what they should say back to you or they could simply be too busy to respond at the moment.

And if you're trying to get hold of someone that is working or in school you may have better luck getting them to respond after work or school hours.

You could also text the person and say hey is there a reason you didn't respond?

Be gentle and direct with the wording when responding to someone not responding back to you.

It is okay to not reply to people if you're not feeling up to it.

While you should eventually reply back to the person to let them know you're okay it's not mandatory that you constantly reply to someone whether through mail, email, text, telephone etc.

If you're not responding to anyone it could be that you're just wanting time to yourself, are tired of texting and responding, have anxiety or ADHD or just don't to be bothered to text or respond at the moment.

It's okay to not respond to someone if you don't want to and you could text back and say you just need some time to yourself and you'll text back later.

The psychology behind not responding is a result of text anxiety, digital burnout or ADHD.

There are several reasons for someone not responding to you or your messages.

For example if someone is not responding or replying to your texts they may be taking time to process the message and come up with a good response.

Also one of the most common reasons someone may ignore you is because the person that is not responding to you needs space.

The person could be going through a tough time or need time to themselves.

Therefore, respecting their boundaries and giving them the space they need is essential as well.

Sometimes not responding to someone can also be about control such as when we feel anxious and overwhelmed, we might try to take control of the situation i.e.

'It's up to me when I get back to someone'.

It's a way of avoiding a feeling of being coerced to engage with someone (or something) in moments we don't wish to.”

The person not responding to you may also not feel the same way about you, or they could be involved with someone else, uncomfortable with your dynamic—such as if you're colleagues in the same workplace—have a different sexual orientation, or have some other reason they don't want to have constant contact or pursue a relationship.

If someone is ignoring you and not responding you could send something heartfelt, like “I've tried reaching out a couple of times.

Maybe you're going through something you're uncomfortable sharing with me, or maybe you're just not up for connecting with me right now.

I just want to let you know that I'm here.

And I hope we can connect in the future.”

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