Why can't you hold a newborn on your period?

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asked Jan 30, 2024 in Baby/Newborn by cochester88 (1,950 points)
Why can't you hold a newborn on your period?

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answered Mar 31, 2024 by Gracy (149,380 points)
The reason you can't hold a newborn on your period is because you will not be in a good mood and your mood when on your period can affect the mood of the newborn and make them stressed and fussy.

However there's no actual harm in holding a newborn on your period and many women do hold newborns when on their period without any issues.

Babies are the cutest at around age 3 months to 6 months of age and they remain at peak cuteness until age 4 and 1/2 years of age.

When babies aren't held they are deprived of touch and can fail to thrive and lose weight and in severe cases even die.

Babies and young children that do not get held or touched also have lower levels of a growth hormone which means that a lack of touch can stunt a child's growth as well.

Babies and children need to be held and touched and loved to thrive.

Babies can feel unloved and even an unborn baby can sense and react to emotions like love and rejection.

A mothers or parents thoughts about the baby and even pregnancy such as love, rejection or dinterest directly affects the baby and the child's sense of self, esteem and security.

An infant to be emotionally neglected if he or she does not have a relationship with at least one caregiver who can accurately read and interpret the infant's cues and respond in a sensitive or caring way most of the time, especially when the baby is hurt, ill, very upset,

The range of emotions that your baby can pick up on are extremely wide.

For example, if you don't want your pregnancy, your baby can feel that same rejection.

This can cause emotional problems for your baby in the future.

A baby's experience before birth is still largely unknown but some research suggests they may sense how a pregnant parent feels.

Experts are still learning about what can be sensed from inside the womb, like joy, stress, and whether or not an unborn baby can feel unwanted.

Normally babies develop a close attachment bond with their main caregiver (usually their parents) within the first months of life.

If they are in a situation where they do not receive normal love and care, they cannot develop this close bond.

This may result in a condition called attachment disorder.
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answered Nov 23, 2024 by Mandymorgan (15,400 points)
There is no medical reason why it is harmful to your newborn or a newborn to be around them or hold the newborn on your period.

The belief that you cannot hold a newborn when on your period is simply a myth that stems from outdated cultural stigma about menstruation.

Some cultures also associate menstruation with impurity which leads to customs that restrict certain activities including being around or touching newborns.

It is perfectly safe for a woman to hold and take care of babies while she is having her period.

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