OkCupid the ideal place to come when you're ready to settle down some but still want to feel ~hip~ and have fun. It's been offering 22 gender and 13 orientation choices since 2014 (a major step toward inclusivity that other sites hadn't even considered yet).
Fast forward to now, when all users can choose their pronouns. If you're a non-monogamous user, you'll only get shown — gasp — other people interested in non-monogamy. These are only a couple of the features that provide OkCupid understands the modern dating landscape much better than its other longtime competitors.
The site's 2017 redesign goes past enlisting a horny millennial as a graphic designer. For young, left-leaning singles, personal politics aren't just a "well if we agree, it's great" thing when looking for a date. Users can weed out people they'd hate by answering deal-breakers about things like guns, women's issues, and vaccines. Though anyone can mark their preferences and much of OkCupid can be used entirely for free, sorting people out by dealbreakers is only available to paying users.
OkCupid's connections are strengthened by an algorithm that picks matches based on how similarly both parties answered questions during sign-up (yes, there are questions about communication and sappy relationship things as well as political views.) A compatibility score plus details on where you disagreed are helpful padding when it comes to evaluating what differences are make-or-breaks.